Starting games over is making this game take up way too much time in my life. I had an IT guy, who knows pretty much everything there is to know about computers and internet over here Tuesday, tell me the problem is not on my end. He says it's either Xbox live, EA Sports, or the other player I'm playing against. In some ways I think he must be right. I can play Rock Band or Left 4 Dead, or whatever else on Live for hours at a time and never get disconned. I can play online PC games, never a problem. I can get through entire games of NCAA against some people 80% of the time, so how could the problem be on my end? Regardless, I want to try to fix this because I want to be a part of this Dynasty and TSO for a long time. whygodwhy1111 mentioned something about port forwarding or DMZ or something. Then Jayrah said he knows of a step by step guide on youtube. Could you guys tell me what it is Im trying to accomplish, and post a link to this guide? Please keep in mind that I am borderline retarded when it comes to technology.