help, can't connect with user, not a NAT problem Okay, This is the third time (third season) myself and Riptides have tried connecting for our game that will decide the division. Before, I thought it was a NAT problem, I had restricted NAT since I was at college and using their wireless. Now, I bought a router and things have worked great with users I previously couldn't connect to. What is the problem? I can't connect with him in a party either, but when I was in a party with someone else..and they invited him..he was able to enter the party. I could hear him and everything. WTF! I send him the game invite. He enters, we sit there for a second, and then it boots us. It does not say anything except show that the other user left. This is extremely annoying!!!!!!!