As weird as the title is, this something I need to post for myself and maybe for some other guys in the community in my boat. My wife and I have been trying for 10 months, with no results. We want to have a child and I am starting to worry that something is wrong. Tonight, it hit a head with my best friend, who's wife had a major surgery last year on her lady stuff, called to let me know they were expecting. I am just at a point where I don't know who to even talk to. My friends are a no go because we are all friends with my best friend and my family is just as anxious for us to get pregnant so talking to them will result in a "try harder" speech. I am not looking for advice or even feedback. Tonight is rock bottom. Tonight makes me feel as though we will never get there even though my buddy and his wife being pregnant, doesn't mean we can't/won't. Just bumming.